Stop looking outside...

We keep assessing the results outside and trying to fix the issue... if we lack confidence or assertiveness, we look for a training or something to address our lack...

Rather than that, we should look at what is it inside us that is attracting situations like that outside...

Rather than operating from the context that I need to learn, I need to improve, I need to be better, we should look at...

....what is it in me that is attracting this situation, these people and these circumstances...

that is the inner work that is needed...